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#254578 05/01/2021 04:42 PM
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For those of you who knew my wife Candace I wnated pass along the sad news that she passed at 1.30 Pacific time today in Sonoma.Some of you already knew she was fading but wnated the TTOLers who knew her to also get the news. She was greatly loved and will be hugely missed. We will be toasting her in gthe BVI's in June .One love..

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Manpot #254579 05/01/2021 04:43 PM
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Very sorry to hear that Malcom, I hope I bump into you in June!
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Very sorry for your loss...

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Very sorry to hear this sad news, Malcom. We are thinking about you and Candace and all the fun and happy times! Rusty and Sharon

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I did not know her but have always appreciated your help, kindness, and guidance on this board, Malcolm

Very sorry to hear my friend, I cant even begin to imagine what you are going through, and if we cross paths in June in BVI would certainly be honored to toast her...

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So very sorry to hear this. Know how much you two shared. Hope we see you in June.

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Very sorry to hear that. My heartfelt condolences.


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Thanks for letting us know Mal.

I did not know Candace, but I feel like she was a member of our TTOL family, and I am shocked and saddened.

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Malcolm, my condolences for your loss and Candace was truly a lovely person.

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met and spoke with you both years ago in san Juan -- cannot imagine your loss -- know you are loved and she will be missed

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Malcolm, I'm so sorry for your loss. Candace was a lovely lady who will be missed by the many friends she made.

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So sorry to hear this. We have enjoyed reading many posts you have made here. We all share a common love of the BVI!

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Wow, Mal.. Hard to put it into words.. Our condolences...


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So sorry for your loss Mal.


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I am so very sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you.

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Oh Mal....My heart is with you.

Nick was there to meet her in the mule.

We will raise a glass when I see you in June......much love.....


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Very sad news, Mal. Nancy and I were at the Elm a couple of nights ago and of course thinking of the two of you. We have lots of great memories with you and "Candaysay". Wishing the best for you, and hope you get back down here soon.


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Wow. You just don’t ever know what others are going through. We are very sorry for your loss.

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Mal, I am so sorry. I have no words. She was a very special lady.

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Mal, Doug and I are so, so sorry. Our thoughts are with you friend.


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Mal, Condolences from Julie me and the boys. Lovely gal that will be greatly missed.



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My condolences - Candace was wonderful person and the world is a poorer place with her passing. Here's a picture of her from happier times at the Elm

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I know my missus has already passed on our condolences but just wanted to add my own. We had so many happy times together at CRC and The Elm but, sadly, could never get Candace aboard Jeannius (even just tied at the dock!!!). Can't believe we will never see her again. Here's a photo of happy times together along with a few other TTOLers, at The Elm, on the night the great Steve Cropper joined the band...

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Malcom I am so sorry for your loss...the memories of your love and life together I hope will soften the sorrow. Hope you are able to travel to your beloved CRC and remember the good and wonderful times together.

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So, so sorry to hear this new Mal. It's been quite a while since we've seen you down there but love the memories. My next Red Stripe will be for her .


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Tommy and I send our condolences! Please take care.

A lovely toast indeed come June to honor!

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Mal - that is heartbreaking news - my sincere condolences - stay strong - Brian


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So very sorry for your loss. Life is just not easy when you get older


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I feel so badly for you Malcolm. I hadn't expected to hear this as I thought you might be comimg down soon. I enjoyed our many chance meetups and the talks with yourself and Candace at the restaurants and bars on the North shore. Please look after yourself well and I hope to see you perhaps later in the year.

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A hard reminder that none of us know how long we'll be enjoying this trip. Condolences, Mal, for you as well as close friends and family.

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Malcolm, VERY sorry to hear of your loss! She was a very classy lady. Prayers for you.

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So incredibly sorry for your loss. Can't think of a better way honor her memory than with a visit to the BVI in June. After losing 2 dogs and my mom and dad in the past 2 years and hearing about way too many people gone too soon, I encourage everyone to LIVE life to the fullest. You never know what day will be your last.


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Mal,
I know you were so very much looking forward to returning to your BVI home. So sorry your partner can’t make it.
Fondly remember meeting you at the Elm years ago. We walked in and saw you, and I said to my friends “I know that guy!” Even though I didn’t.

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Malcolm,

Roy and I always looked forward to seeing you and Candace. Some of our happiest memories of the BVI were when we stayed
at the Chateau. Candace made a lovely Italian dinner. I could smell the sauce cooking for hours.

I'm certain that Roy welcomed her into Heaven today and made her a painkiller.

May all of your good memories bring smiles to you.

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Oh, Mal, I am so sorry to read this news. What a great life y'all had together!

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Here is another image in memoriam - I had to listen to the song "Diamonds on the Soles of her Shoes" with tears in my eyes yesterday

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Malcomb, Melissa and I send our sincere condolences to you. We've never met, but hope to soon. So very sorry for your loss.


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Mal,

Leo and I are so deeply saddened to hear that Candace has passed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We are truly blessed to have shared many wonderful times together especially sharing in our wedding on Apple Bay.
Sending our love and hugs and wishing we could be there in June.....we will be there in spirit.

Much love to you Mal,

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So sorry to hear of your loss Mal. Pam and I will always remember the times spent with you and Candice. She was a very special lady. Les and Pam

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We never met, but we're so sorry to hear of her passing. Hope you and your family find peace in the wonderful memories that you share.

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