Sorry, after rereading my original post I could have chosen better words to explain my question. <img src="http://www.traveltalkonline.com/forums/images/graemlins/duh.gif" alt="" /> What I meant is that I'm not making any choices...my goal is to supply my girlfriend with a list of at least three then I'm stepping out of the picture other than attend. We all know that when you've been to our "home away from home" for many years our buddies believe we know everyone on island. PLUS, I for one do not want to make any choices when it comes to party and for sure wedding plans for someone else's daughter.