My wife and I have been to St martin a handful of times, now just hitting our 40s. Both of use like to enjoy very minimal swimwear and her sometime topless, but last time we went to the CO section of Orient my wife got all kinda of comments for not going fully nude and her suit was TINY and she was topless. It was unnerving enough that we just left and setup at a beach bar on the textile side that didn't seem to care less about a couple in thongs. So much for that being the trip she lost her inhibitions.
Anyways we are headed back and would love to hear some beaches where minimal beachwear doesn't cause much stir. We've done the usual: bay long, bay rough, happy bay let petite cayes, etc. Have not been to the dutch side much. Any ideas? Nothing about what we like to wear is see-through or proactive, just a lot of butt :P