I would much rather be swimming, snorkeling, swinging in a hammock, gazing at the stars on the trampoline, having a nice beach dinner, etc.... than watching a football game in a bar for 4 hours while in the BVI... but that is just me

I don't know - a few years ago, after delivering my boat to TMM, I did the Super Bowl at Mulligan's. It was a great party, several hundred people, big family atmosphere - lots of food, drinks, and fans of both teams enjoying the game (probably helped that it wasn't decided until the minute or so of the game). I was not expecting to have such a good time - and I was by myself (although I did make a few friends that night).
There are 364 other days of the year to do the other stuff. And variety is fun! ymmv