Thanks guys sorry to hear about your friend. My wife and I are the oldest in the group. We are in our very late 60's so we will keep the ladder in mind. The rest are in their 40's along with 5 teens so I think they will be fine. We don't need gourmet for a day sail as long as its good. My son chose the cruise so he too could pick the destination. We are very excited about spending a day on the water with our 3 grandchildren who haven't been on the island with us since they were infants. I'll let you know how it works out. 30 days until we are there for 30 days